Graham said, "Of all the therapists, counselors, teachers, and advisers, Ruben was the only one who really made an impact on me." This is Ruben Jimenez. His style and wisdom made a big impact on Graham. He came to have breakfast, and to wish Graham well in his next phase of life. He said: "the next two months are going to suck, no doubt, but it won't be anywhere as tough as what you just went through."